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Pose with Confidence! Posing tips for you & your wedding party.



Whether you're attending a wedding, a gala, or simply snapping a quick pic with friends, knowing how to position yourself can make all the difference. Here’s an assortment of expert tips, combining insights for both gentlemen and ladies, to help you shine in every shot.



1. Empty Your Pockets

Get rid of bulky items in your pockets. Take out your phone, keys, and any other items to maintain a sleek and clean silhouette.


2. Button Up!

Remember the blazer rule. When standing, button the top button of your blazer (the middle button is optional if you have three). However, if you’re sitting down, ensure you unbutton for a more relaxed appearance. When raising your arms around someone for a hug, unbutton your jacket or keep your arms lower around their mid back.


3. Find Your Hand Placement

Lifting your hands slightly off of your sides can enhance your pose. Slide one hand casually into your pants pocket (fingers or thumb out) or rest it on the low-mid back (around upper back/shoulders - unbutton jacket) of a close friend or partner to create a more inviting vibe.

Hands play a crucial role in setting the mood of a photograph. To keep hands looking natural, give them an activity: one hand can be active while the other remains at rest. This can include resting a hand on a railing, placing it in a pocket, or holding onto something. When posing with a partner, holding hands or placing a hand around their waist can create a natural and connected look.

Avoid These:

Avoid clasping your hands over your crotch, as it can make you appear defensive / vulnerable. Also, be mindful of where you place your hands, as they draw the viewer's attention. For example, when putting hands in pockets, ensure any exposed thumbs point downward to keep focus on your face.


4. Feet Apart, Toes Out

To create a flattering silhouette, angle your feet outward instead of standing straight. Maintain a wide stance with feet shoulder-width apart for a strong foundation. Shift weight to the foot farthest from the camera, with a slight bend in the front knee and a straight back leg.


5. Stand Tall – Head, Shoulders, Spine, and Chest

Keep your spine straight to maintain a strong posture with your chest extended and shoulders relaxed. Avoid tilting your head too much to appear masculine and assertive in photos.


6. Chin Forward

To avoid unflattering angles, extend your neck slightly forward instead of tilting your chin up. This helps to elongate your neck, position your face correctly, and define your jawline. This will feel awkward, but will look great so allow your photographer to assist with the proper positioning to ensure a great photo!



1. Create Space Between Your Torso and Arm

Avoid pressing your arms against your body, which can create unwanted bulk. Instead, create a bit of distance by placing a hand on your hip or upper thigh, or by putting a hand in your pocket. This creates dynamic shapes in your photos.


2. Create Angles — Don’t Face the Camera Straight On

A straight-on pose can be less flattering. Instead, shift your body to a 45-degree angle to create a slimming effect and add visual interest to your photos.


3. Stand Tall & Shift Your Weight

Good posture is key! Imagine a string pulling you up from the crown of your head. Keep your core engaged, shoulders back and down, and you’ll look confident and poised in any pose. Place your weight on your back leg. This creates a flattering ‘S curve’ effect that showcases your figure.


4. Bring Your Ears Forward

To avoid the dreaded double chin, try bringing your ears slightly forward towards the camera. Think of it as a turtle emerging from its shell. This subtle movement brings your eyes forward and can enhance your jawline and create a more flattering portrait.


5. Lean Forward from the Waist

A slight lean toward the camera makes your pose appear more engaging and natural. It brings your eyes forward, helps in reducing any chin shadows, and lends an overall slimmer look.


General Tips for Brides & Grooms


Relax and Breathe

Take a deep breath before posing. Remember, you’re celebrating your love, and it should feel joyful, not stressful.

Engage with Each Other

Focus on each other rather than the camera. Create touch points to convey your connection. Talk, laugh, and enjoy each other’s company. This creates genuine moments that translate well in photos.

Use Your Hands

Create active hands. Avoid letting your arms hang limply at your sides. Instead, hold each other, place hands on your hips, gently touch your partner's face, or play with your bouquet.

Smile Naturally

Think of an inside joke between you two to elicit a real smile. Instead of forcing a grin, let your emotions guide your expression.

Move Together

Forget about looking stiff! Sometimes the best shots happen when you let loose. Walk, twirl, or simply sway to the music in your hearts. This liveliness will contribute to natural smiles and candid expressions that resonate with authenticity. Movement and active prompts will create a relaxed atmosphere and beautiful candid moments.



Dress Positioning

Hold your bouquet at your waist/belly button to highlight the dress and create flattering angles.

Foot Placement

Angle one foot slightly in front of the other to create a nice line in your silhouette. Your groom should lift your dress slightly to position his feet underneath and to get in close.

Facial Expression

Think about a beautiful moment you cherish, or consider looking toward your partner with a soft smile for a genuine reaction.

Train Awareness

Be conscious of the gown’s train; Assign your MOH to adjust it throughout the day before posing for a shot.



Hand Placement

Place a hand in your pocket (thumb or fingers out) or lightly on your thigh to avoid looking stiff. This can also help define your silhouette.

Avoid Over-Posing

Keep it natural. Adjust your collar or play with your tie instead of holding a rigid pose.

Facial Expressions

Maintain a soft, relaxed expression. Practice a subtle smile in front of a mirror if needed.

Posture

Keep shoulders back and relaxed to avoid looking tense. A slight lean toward your partner can convey intimacy.


Remember:


Communicate with Your Photographer

Share your preferences and any specific shots you want. They will guide you through the process and help you feel comfortable.

Have Fun!

The best photos happen when you're having a great time. Don’t overthink it—just be yourselves and enjoy the day!


With these tips in mind, you will feel more comfortable and confident in front of the camera, resulting in beautiful, authentic photos that truly capture the essence of the day.


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